How To Negotiate A Divorce Settlement With Your Spouse

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By Stephanie Morawski
Publish Date
October 3, 2025

Once you and/or your spouse have decided to file for divorce, know at some point there will be negotiations. We have included some simple steps for how to negotiate a divorce settlement with your spouse.

Establish Open Communication: Sit down and discuss the situation openly and honestly with your spouse. Be sure to listen to your spouse’s point of view and try to understand their perspective.

Identify Needs: Work together to identify and prioritize your needs. Consider both short-term and long-term needs, such as child support, alimony, division of property, and custody arrangements.

Research Your Options: Educate yourself on your legal rights and options. Research state laws on divorce, how courts divide assets, and other information that can help you in the negotiation process.
Propose Solutions: Once you have identified your needs, propose solutions that meet those needs. Be sure to consider your spouse’s needs as well.

Be Open to Compromise: Remember that a divorce settlement should be mutually beneficial to both parties. Be open to compromise and be willing to give and take.

Stick to Facts: Avoid using heated language or making personal attacks. Keep the discussion focused on facts, not emotions.
Seek Professional Help: If negotiations become too difficult or complex, consider seeking the help of a professional mediator or divorce attorney.

Before filing for divorce, have an idea of your negotiation strategy. We are here to help at Expressive Wealth and ultimately you will find an attorney that will complement your goal of achieving the best possible outcome for you and your family.

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